For many couples, planning for divorce might as well as be hoping for the worst to happen to their marriage. But just like life insurance, planning for a divorce is something you’ll thank yourself for doing when the need for it actually arises. And with 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the United States ending in divorce, the chances of it happening to you are not exactly out of the realm of possibility.
If you’re in the middle of a divorce, careful planning is key to a speedy and hassle-free resolution. And contrary to what you might think, divorce planning happens before, during, and after the divorce, and, ideally, with the help of your family law attorney. Here are a few things you need to know when planning for divorce.
Make Up Your Mind
If you’ve yet to file for divorce, now is as good a time as any to decide if this is really the right choice for you. Divorce is stressful, painful, and expensive. It represents a dramatic change in your life that will affect your emotional well-being and finances. This is a decision that should never be taken lightly.
Do Your Homework
There’s a lot work that needs to be done, so do your research. Not only are there different divorce timelines to consider, the divorce process itself can vary between states. In Texas, fo example, either spouse must have been a resident of the state for at least six months before filing, and must have lived in the county of filing for at least 90 days. While a divorce attorney is not technically necessary, going without one could lead to costly mistakes.
Take Time to Set Goals
What do you intend to accomplish with your divorce? More importantly, what are your goals in terms of your personal and financial life? A divorce is likely to throw a wrench in any 5-year plan, so it’s important to re-align your goals during and after your separation.
What’s Best for the Children?
When it comes to child custody in Texas, the Court will always have the child’s best interests in mind. You and your spouse will likewise have to think about what makes sense for your children. Is 50/50 or joint custody the best option? Should the mother keep the children? Perhaps something unorthodox like taking turns living with the children in the family home (while the other spouse lives in another home) could be what’s best for the family.
Assemble Your Team
Aside from a reliable Texas divorce attorney, your team can also be composed of a therapist, a financial advisor, and an accountant (for your taxes). Most people make the mistake of treating their attorney as their therapist, but they are ultimately specialists in matters concerning the law, not the heart.
If you are in the middle of a divorce and need help planning your strategy, schedule a consultation with Austin family law attorney Daniella Lyttle to discuss your financial and legal options. Call the Lyttle Law Firm today at 512.215.5225 to find out how we can help you.